Chris_J,
Don't let it get you down bratha. That sounds almost identical to my first all-grain batch. Trust me, It gets better. I started out the way you did and now I pretty much run the same system as teamtom, only I'll chill everything first and pull the wort off the cold break and boil trub. There is another topic about boil off rates that I started the other day that you may find helpful.
http://www.thebrewingnetwork.com/phpBB2 ... php?t=4136
Also, check out the Honesty & All Grain Show...It always make's me feel better to listen to that one. Just to know there is someone,(Justin), out there just as dumb as me, and if he can do it, we surely can.
http://www.thebrewingnetwork.com/archiv ... -23-06.mp3
Hang in there Chris_J. I'd say the best thing to do is try it again as soon as possible while everything is still fresh in your mind.