Sat Jun 13, 2015 7:34 am
Relays come in two basic flavors - SSR or mechanical and are rated by load amerage and control characteristics. SSRs are expensive and require some sort of heatsink, but are very reliable - do not buy chinese made crap. Mechanical relays have much shorter life but are cheap and ought to be plenty reliable for your purpose. The control rating is what power it takes to throw the switch - the type of power your alarm circuit produces, eg: 12VDC. The demand is usually just mA's at this size. The load is the type of power that you want to switch, really just volts and amps, eg: 10a @250VAC or 5A @24VDC (note that i just pulled those out of my hat).
They also come in different connection types and with or without a socket. The connection types are NO or NC (normally open(off)/closed(on)) and the number of throws and poles: SPST, SPDT - see wikipedia. You want SPST NO or SPDT or DPDT. Use a socket if you can - easier to install. Also see the electric brewery sites.
The right way to do this is to use DSI (direct spark ignitor), IMO. Otherwise unattended operation is not recommended.