I've used both FEDex and UPS without a problem for years.
Many vendors put the "CONTAINS ALCOHOL - MUST BE OVER 21" sticker on my purchases, so I have to pickup in person.
US Post Office has a thing about liquids, so I skip them.
Each state is different and the wine industry has fought long and hard to overturn archaic rules that limited market exposure to the small producers. I don't think this is an anti-beer thing as much as it reflects the progress the wine industry has made in overturning some of these rules with recent court cases. If the Brewer's Association were to get behind shipping reform, we would see the opening of inter-state markets for beer as well.
Still, many states are reluctant to allow direct shipment of any type of alcohol as they feel they are loosing out on potential tax revenues and the large liquor distributors encourage this protectionism as well.
http://www.winespectator.com/webfeature ... State_1049
Since Hawaii is one of the 13 "Reciprocal" states, and all the wine I purchase is from three other "Reciprocal" states (California, Oregon and Washington), I am able to order a certain amount per year direct for my household. Depending on the state you live in depends on what you can do, it has nothing to do with UPS or FEDEX.
With a revision in federal laws recently, FedEx and others have established a system to ship wine - this is mostly for small "craft" wineries, and I purchase wine from a select group of small wineries in this manner that I could not get otherwise as they are not distributed here. If they were distributed here I would purchase them at the store as the shipping costs are high.
http://fedex.com/international/wineship/whocanship.html
Until there is a large demand for inter-state craft beer to overcome the tax revenue interests of your State and the the protection the large liquor distribution companies enjoy by banning this, this will be the norm.
Look at the following FEDEX page - rules depend on what the origin state and destination state is - it's a real mess and by no means a cake walk for the wine industry either.
https://www.fedex.com/cgi-bin/wineShipping.cgi


