Anyone know of a good site for background checks?
Posted: Sun Feb 09, 2014 6:38 pm
by snowcapt
Here's the scoop...
My ex "met" a guy online Jan 6.
She just flew to South Carolina to pick him up, this past Friday.
He is now moving in with her and my 2 little girls ages 4 and 6.
How can I find out about this clown?
Any good sites that I should check out for info?
All I know is the guy's name and that he lived in Columbia South Carolina, and that he was born in Mexico city.
Needless to say, but I am scared shitless about the whole situation.
I recently filed papers with the court to have them officially give me my rights as an unwed father.
And the Mormon craziness continues.
Thanks y'all.
Re: Anyone know of a good site for background checks?
Posted: Sun Feb 09, 2014 6:47 pm
by Kbar
Shit. No idea, but some pay sites are out there. Hang in there! I feel for you!
Re: Anyone know of a good site for background checks?
Posted: Mon Feb 10, 2014 5:46 am
by Ozwald
That sucks man. I wouldn't be messing around with those 'free' sites, though I can't really make any good recommendations.
Re: Anyone know of a good site for background checks?
Posted: Mon Feb 10, 2014 6:35 am
by snowcapt
Not looking at free sites.
I've seen some at $15 and some at almost $100.
They look to be the same, but I don't know.
Just going to bit the bullet and try a few out.
I think when I meet the guy, I will have my ex tell him about where her father is.
Her father is in Kinross Correctional Facility in Michigan for life without parole.
HER step dad got "inappropriate" with her. She then told her father. Her dad then went to see the step dad. He knocked on the door, the guy answered it and was promptly shot in the face 3 times with a .22 pistol.
I'm looking to avoid that kind of situation, to say the least.
Re: Anyone know of a good site for background checks?
Posted: Mon Feb 10, 2014 7:30 am
by NervousDad
I would be full ballistic about that one. I have two girls 2.5 and 6 and I wouldn't be able to deal with that. 1 month, that's just crazy.
Re: Anyone know of a good site for background checks?
Posted: Mon Feb 10, 2014 10:09 am
by snowcapt
NervousDad wrote:I would be full ballistic about that one. I have two girls 2.5 and 6 and I wouldn't be able to deal with that. 1 month, that's just crazy.
I'm just going to keep my composure and work within the bounds of the law.
I also think you should let me take your user name for a bit.
Re: Anyone know of a good site for background checks?
Posted: Mon Feb 10, 2014 7:21 pm
by snowcapt
Sooooo...what a day.
I need help loading a couple of trucks tomorrow morning. I miraculously thought of this new guy I heard was in town.
I called my ex to see if her new beau wanted to work.
He does. Or she wants him to, rather.
What better way to size a guy up, huh?
What a strange world.
Its a dangerous job sometimes, I've been known to drop a shaky pallet or 2.
Never on a person, though.
Yet.
Re: Anyone know of a good site for background checks?
Posted: Tue Feb 11, 2014 8:55 pm
by spiderwrangler
Potentially awkward... potentially informative...