Bes to luck to you!
Its been almost 14 years since I've seen my father - almost every year around the holidays I write a note to him trying to end the silence but I never send it.
I think this is the year that I really send the letter.
I'm writing this post for two reasons - #1 is to try and work up the courage to contact my father
#2 is to get my story out there so other people don't do the same thing that my family has done
I don't even know if my father is still alive - I had and older brother and a younger brother but lost contact with them when the family break up happened - its been even longer since I've spoken to them
Lucille Ball is quoted as saying "Id rather regret the things I've done then the things I haven't done" - I can't explain how much meaning that has in my family after 14 years of silence